Coach, healer and founder of VELARA
See beyondwhat is seen.
I work with parents and teenagers on the distance that grows when people stop feeling understood, and on the patterns that quietly keep it in place.
Perspective
Most problems at home are not about the thing being argued about.
I am Ruchika, a mother of two, a coach, and a healer. My own house taught me what no course could: children do not need to be managed, they need to be understood.
Some people come to talk. Others come for a reading first, because clarity feels more urgent than advice. Both doors lead to the same room, where we slow down enough to see the pattern before deciding what to do about it.
Read the longer storyWhat I explore
Four territories, one question
01
Parents and teenagers
Most arguments at home are not about the phone or the marks. They are about whether someone feels seen.
02
The conversations at home
Most of what goes unsaid at home is not hidden. It is simply waiting for a calmer moment.
03
Patterns beneath experience
When the same situation keeps returning in different clothes, it is worth reading rather than resisting.
04
Slow, unhurried work
Nothing here is solved in one sitting. Small shifts, repeated, are what actually hold.
How the work moves
01
See
Begin with what is visible. The argument, the distance, the decision you keep postponing.
02
Reveal
Look past the first explanation. What is being protected here, and by whom?
03
Understand
Notice the pattern as it emerges, without rushing to fix it.
04
Transform
Let new understanding change the next conversation. That is usually where things move.
The ecosystem
VELARA
The unseen patterns within.
VELARA is the space where I work with the unseen: the patterns, symbols and inner narratives that quietly shape how a life unfolds.
Enter VELARAYou may not leave with every answer. But you may leave seeing your questions differently.
Ways we can work together
Sessions, readings and quiet practical work
Coaching and counselling for families, and reflective practices for clarity.
One-on-One Parent-Teen Counselling
Private sessions for the point where every conversation at home turns into the same argument.
Health Tarot Reading
A grounded reading about your wellbeing and the habits quietly shaping how you feel.
Numerology Reading
Understand your natural strengths, patterns, and timing through your numbers.
Akashic Healing
A quiet session for the pattern that keeps returning, however often you have tried to leave it behind.
Other Healing Modalities
Affirmations, switchwords, energy cleansing and guided visualisation, used sparingly.
“You will never be told what a good parent should do. We will find what works in your house, with your people.”
Ruchika Dhanuka
Get in touch
Tell me what is happening
I read every message myself and reply within 24 to 48 hours.
Sessions are held online, so you can join from anywhere. In-person sessions are available in Kolkata.